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Ababyeyi bagiye kujya baha abana umunani ku bushake aho kuwubaha ku itegeko
Umushinga w’itegeko rishya rigenga imicungire y’umutungo w’abashyingiranwe, impano n’izungura urateganya impinduka mu mitangire y’umunani zirimo ko bitazaba bikiri itegeko ku mubyeyi ngo ahe umwana we umunani.
Itegeko rikurikizwa mu Rwanda kugeza ubu ni iryo mu mwaka wa 1999 rikaba ngo hari ibyo ridasobanura neza haba mu micungire y’umutungo w’abashyingiranye, imitangire y’umunani ndetse n’uburenganzira bwo kuzungura ku bana b’abakobwa n’abahungu.
Ibi byavuzwe na Depite Nyirabega Eutalie wo muri komisiyo ya Politike, ubwuzuzanye bw’abagore n’abagabo mu iterambere ry’igihugu mu nama nyunguranabitekerezo ku mushinga w’iryo tegeko rishya yahuje itsinda ry’abadepite bo muri iyo komisiyo n’abayobozi bo mu nzego zitandukanye mu karere ka Kayonza tariki 23/04/2014.
Bimwe mu byo iryo tegeko rya kera ritasobanuraga neza ngo ni ibijyanye n’imitangire y’umunani, aho byasaga n’aho umubyeyi ategetswe guha umwana we umunani igihe ageze mu myaka y’ubukure, rimwe na rimwe gutanga iyo minani bikagira ingaruka ku bana bakiri batoya nk’uko Depite Nyirabega yabisobanuye.
Yagize ati “Umunani ushobora kuba impano umubyeyi ahaye umwana kugira ngo amwubakire, ushobora no kuba izungura (umwana) akazaryegukana burundu igihe ababyeyi be bitabye Imana.
Ibyo rero ntabwo byari bisobanutse ku buryo wasangaga abana basaba umunani kandi wenda barize bigatuma barumuna ba bo batiga cyangwa se batarerwa neza kubera ko abakuru bashatse gufata iminani ya bo bakamara ibyari bisigaye kugira ngo bitunge abana batoya”.
Ku bijyanye n’umunani na none iri tegeko rishya niryemezwa ngo rizarengera ababyeyi kuko hari ubwo abana bahozaga ababyeyi ba bo ku nkeke babasaba umunani wanakurikirana ugasanga nta mitungo ababyeyi bafite batangaho umunani nk’uko Muhinkindi Chantal ushinzwe irangamimerere mu murenge wa Kabarondo abivuga.
Yagize ati “Umunani wasaga nkaho ari itegeko kuko hari igihe wakira umwana (aje kukuregera) ati njyewe ndashaka ko data ampa umunani.
Rimwe na rimwe ugasanga ni akantu baburana n’ubundi k’intica ntikize, ariko kuko ari uburenganzira bw’umwana bikaba ngombwa ko ako kantu bakagabana n’ubundi n’umubyeyi ugasanga abana basize iheruheru umubyeyi, ugasanga nta kintu agifite cyo kumufasha”.
Iri tegeko rishya ngo rizanatanga uburenganzira ku bashyingiranwe bwo guhindura amasezerano bagiranye ku bijyanye n’imitungo, aho abantu bashobora gusezerana ivangamutungo rusange, ariko nyuma bagasanga baragombaga gusezerana ivangamutungo muhahano gusa bitewe n’imbogamizi bashobora guhura na zo bamaze kubana.
Aha niho Depite Nyirabega ahera asaba abashinzwe irangamimerere mu mirenge kujya basobanurira abashaka gusezerana ibijyanye n’imicungire y’umutungo w’abashyingiranwe mbere y’uko basezerana, kugira ngo bahitemo uburyo bubanogeye kandi babyiyumvikaniyeho ubwabo.
Cyprien M. Ngendahimana
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Bjr,
Ese iyo kera umukobwa yashyingirwaga agahabwa ibirongoranwa,byafatwaga nkumunanani ahawe?
None iyo umubyeyi yasigaga irage,agasiga ashyingiye umukobwa we akanamuha ibirongoranwa,kdi muri iryo rage akaba yaranditse ko namara gupfa ,umutware asize azaha iminani bashikibe none ,ese uwo mukobwa washyingiwe na se wanahawe ibirongoranwa,we ntiyemerewe uwo munani se yasize yanditse? Nonese ntiyemerewe no kuzungura umubyeyi we? Muduhe ibitekerezo kuko icyo cyibazo mu muryango wacu kirimo Thx
Ese bishobokako umuntu wishwe azungurwa nabamwishe ngo nuko bafitanye amasano yahafi
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Iryo tegeko ni ryo rwose kuko Abana bazakurana umuco wo gushakisha uko bazabaho ku bwabo bitume biga bashyizeho umwete kugirango bazigire badateze indage kuko ntawuzaba azi ngo Umubyeyi azaraga nde?
hi,
ubwo se koko uyu mushinga umuntu wautekereje yari yizeye iki?
ubu koko barabona abagabo bihakana abana batabahaye rugari? babangaga leta ibarengera, noneho ubu haracura iki? ko muvuga ngo bizakemura amakimbirane se kandi mbona ahubwo muyateje?reba nawe umubyeyi umwe azabiha umwana akunda, abandi se bo bazaba abande? abana babyawe inyuma ya mariage bo bazaba abande? ahubwo mukuruje rwaserera cyane
nge ndabona aribwo bazashwana cyane
ibi bizakurura amacakubiri ku bana,ibaze nawe bamwe bahawe impano abandi ntibayibone?ubu se bazarebana neza?iri tegeko ryiganwe ubushishozi pe.gusa kurundi ruhande ababyeyi bazahabwa agaciro kanini,kuko umubyeyi azajya abwira umwana amwumvire,naho ubundi yavugaga akamwima amatwi bitewe nuko ibyo azabona azabihabwa n’itegeko
iri tegeko riziye igihe pe,, ababyeyi bahuraga n’imbogamizi yo kutubahwa nk’uko bikwiye.. wenda byakuraho no gufata imitungo nabi no kuzerera kw’abana bamwe na bamwe.
Ariko muri iri tegeko nizere ko bazashyiramo ko atari nangombwa ko umwana fasha umubyeyi we, Kuko mu izungura hari aho byarebwaga mugihe cyo gutanga iminani bikaba byaba n’intandaro yo kutawuhabwa.
Ikindi ni uko hari abana bazajya bahabwa byose (nk’impano) abandi bakaburiramo kuko umubyeyi adashaka kubaha. Nyuma bigakurura inzangano n’amahane mu miryango yewe no kwicana bikavamo.
muzabirebere kure cyane nti muzarebere iri tegeko kuri baba byeyi bakize, bafite abana babananiye, bityo nibyo babahaye ntibanyurwe bagashaka kunganya n’abandi. Iyi ikaba ari intandaro yo kugirango hageho iri tegeko bityo ayo makimbirane ashire. Ariko mwibuke ko aba yamuhaye byose muntangiriro.