Impamvu eshanu zatuma umukobwa ahera ku ishyiga

Muri iki gihe hari imvugo igira iti “Abagabo barabuze”. Ibi biterwa n’uko hari abakobwa bageza igihe cyo gushinga ingo ariko ugasanga babuze abasore babakura iwabo. Ese ni uko abasore batagishaka kurongora cyangwa n’abakobwa babigiramo uruhare?

Twagerageje kuganira na bamwe mu bagore, abakobwa n’abandi bantu batandukanye bavuga impamvu zitandukanye zituma abakobwa bagumirwa twakubiye muri izi eshanu zikurikira:
1. Kubenga cyane

Ngo hari abakobwa babura abagabo bo kubarongora kubera ko babenze abasore cyane. Iyo umukobwa amaze kubenga abasore babiri cyangwa batatu n’abandi basore batinya kumusaba kuko bishyiramo ko ntacyo barusha ababanje.

2. Kutamenya urwego urimo

Mukamwiza, umugore w’abana babiri, avuga ko umukobwa ubenga cyane abiterwa no kutamenya urwego arimo agahora ashaka umugabo wisumbuyeho. Ati: “Niba usabwe bwa mbere na mwarimu n’inshuro ya kabiri hakaza umwarimu menya ko urwego uriho ari urw’umwarimu.”

Ibi bigira ingaruka z’uko abo mu rwego rwawe baguhunga, uko imyaka igenda igusiga n’abo mu munsi yawe ukababura bikarangira uheze iwanyu.

3. Kudashamadukira abahungu

Indi impamvu ishobora kuba intandaro ku mukobwa yo kuguma ku ishyira ni ukudashamadukira abasore. Umusore akenera kuvugisha umukobwa ugaragaza ko amwitayeho. Ngo iyo umukobwa yifashe nk’umuntu usuzugura abasore, bose baramutinya kuko bishyizemo ko uri umunyagasuzuguro kandi harimo n’uwakuviramo umugabo.

Umubyeyi witwa Mukagatete, ahamya ko umukobwa agomba kurangwa n’urugwiro ku bantu bose harimo n’abasore ariko akirinda gukabya kugira ngo batabibonamo uburaya.

4. Kwiyandarika

Abantu benshi bahuriza ku kintu cy’uko igihe umukobwa yamenyekanye ko agendera mu ngeso z’ubusambanyi, nta musore n’umwe wifuza kumugira umugore kuko akeka ko yazakomeza ingeso nk’izo na nyuma yo gushinga urugo.

Kalisa ukiri ingaragu avuga ko n’abasore b’abasambanyi batifuza gushaka abakobwa biyandaritse kandi ari bo babandaritse. Yongeraho ko umukobwa wirinze ingeso z’ubusambanyi uko yaba asa kose atabura umugabo.

5. Imyitwarire y’umuryango akomokamo

Abakobwa benshi bakunda kuzira imyitwarire igayitse y’ababyeyi babo cyane cyane ba nyina. Umukobwa ufite nyina w’umusinzi cyangwa uroga nta musore utekereza kumushaka nk’uko Evode abishimangira.

Yibwira ko naramukaga amuzanye uko byagenda kose azitwara nka nyina. Ikindi, abandi bantu baguca intege iyo ushaka kumurongora; nk’uko Evode yakomeje abisobanura.

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