Umubyeyi witwa Bujeniya Uwera w’i Gishamvu, anenga ubwigenge bw’urubyiruko agira ati “Twe twabyirutse twumvira ababyeyi, washaka kujya ahantu umubyeyi yakubuza ukabireka. Waba ukubaganye, akakubwira ngo saba imbabazi ugapfukama ukazisaba. Nyamara umwana w’ubu we arishyira akizana. Umubuza kujya kureba tereviziyo akanga akagenda, byanarimba akararayo.”

Uyu mubyeyi kandi avuga ko uku gusuzugura k’urubyiruko ntacyo babasha kugukoraho kuko ngo abana ntibashaka kumva, kabone n’ubwo bafata inkoni. Yunzemo ati “ntiwahora ukubita umwana. Baratunanira tukarekera.”

Ku bijyanye n’imyambarire y’urubyiruko, uyu mubyeyi anenga imyambarire y’abana b’abakobwa. Yagize ati “ipantalo ntacyo itwaye kuko yambika kugera ku birenge. Ariko iriya myenda idatuma umuntu atambuka, akagenda asobanya wagira ngo arwaye imitego, iriya turayinenga nk’ababyeyi.”

Igitekerezo cy’uyu mubyeyi gisa n’icya mugenzi we wagize ati “iyo ubona umwana w’umukobwa yambara ijipo igera hejuru y’amavi, rwose biba birenze. Ubundi nta mukobwa ukwiye kwambara umwenda ugera aho. Byonyine no gutambuka, ukabona ntabishoboye.”

Urubyiruko ariko ntiruvuga rumwe n’ababyeyi. Emmanuel Bizumutima, akaba ari umwe mu bahagarariye inzego z’urubyiruko mu Murenge wa Gishamvu. Yagize ati “usanga hari ibyo tutumvikanaho n’ababyeyi bacu, twagendana n’ibigezweho bakumva ko twataye umuco.”

Yunzemo ati “ibyo urubyiruko dukora ntabwo binyuranyije n’umuco nyarwanda, kuko tunumvira n’ababyeyi bacu. Ahubwo ababyeyi bacu turi gushaka uko twagenda tubahindura na bo bakagenda mu muco igihugu cyacu kigezemo.”

Umubikira witwa Tereza Mukabacondo, umwungiriza w’intebe y’inteko mu nteko nyarwanda y’ururimi n’umuco, akaba ashinzwe umuco muri iyi nteko, we avuga ko gushyamirana k’urubyiruko n’ababyeyi ku bijyanye n’umuco nta gihe bitabayeho.

Yagize ati “Nta ngoma itagira ab’ubu. Iteka, ab’ubu usanga basa n’abashyamirana n’aba kera mu byerekeranye n’umuco. ”

Yunzemo ati “Kuba isi isigaye ari nk’umudugudu, bituma hari byinshi urubyiruko rugeraho bitariho kera. Ikigomba kwitabwaho kuri iki gihe ni uguhugura urubyiruko, rukumvishwa ko rutagomba kumira bunguri ibyo rubonye byose, ahubwo bagafatamo ibishobora kungura umuco ariko bitawucuyura. ”

Umubikira Tereza ati “nta ngoma itagira ab’ubu”, urubyiruko ruti “ababyeyi bacu tuzabahindura na bo bajyane n’ibigezweho. ” Ababyeyi na bo bati “ipantaro ku bakobwa ntacyo itwaye kuko yambika uyambaye, icyo tutemera ni amajipo magufiya. ” Ibyo ari byo byose aba bose bazagera aho bahuze kuko n’ipantaro ku bakobwa mbere ababyeyi batayemeraga.

Marie Claire Joyeuse