Abakobwa banze gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina batarakora ubukwe abahungu ngo baba barabigiye amayeri

« Umukobwa iyo wamaze kujya kwiyerekana iwabo cyangwa ugafata irembo ntaho yahera akwangira ko mukora imibonano mpuzabitsina » Iyi ni imvugo igarukwaho n’abantu benshi, yaba ababikoze ubwabo cyangwa ababyumvise ku wundi byabayeho. Bumvikanisha ko umukobwa wanze ko muryamana, umweretse ko wiyerekanye iwabo biba birangiye ahita yemera mugakora imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Hari abakobwa bakoresha imbaraga nyinshi kugira ngo batazakora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umusore kugeza bamaze gusezerana kubana nk’umugabo n’umugore. Nyamara abasore benshi na bo batsimbaraye mu gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina na mbere y’uko babana bamaze kuvumbura amayeri bavuga ko ashobora abakobwa batari bake binangiye mu kuba bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina mbere y’ubukwe.

Aya mayeri akoreshwa rero n’abasore batari bake namaze kumva ko bagira batya bagateguza umukobwa ko bazajya kwiyerekana iwabo ngo azateguze umuryango. Umusore akikora n’itsinda ry’inshuti ze zimuherekeje bakazakirwa kwa sebukwe nk’umuntu ufite umushinga mu minsi iri imbere yo kuzabana n’umukobwa wabo. Ahubwo hari n’abiyemeza gukora umuhango wo gufata irembo kugira ngo yemeze umukobwa ko yamaramaje.

Aya mayeri kandi ntabwo anakoreshwa n’umusore gusa ufite gahunda yo kuzabana n’uyu mukobwa. Oya, n’undi musore ufite umukobwa watsembye ko batasambana, abenshi babifatira umwanya bagategura umuhango wa baringa kugira ngo azabone uko agera ku ntego. Ugasanga umusore yafashe irembo aharenze hangahe, yamara gusambana n’umukobwa umwe akazajya no gufata irindi rembo gutyo gutyo....

Ibi iyo umusore amaze kubikora, aba afite ijambo rikomeye kuri uyu mukobwa ry’uko gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ahubwo binaje mu nshingano, kuko aba amwumvisha ko nta gisibya ari we bazabana nk’umugabo n’umugore, rero nta mpamvu yaba amwima kandi n’ubundi ari we abibikiye. Aha bikantera kwibariza uyu mukobwa nti "Mbese kwiyerekana iwanyu cyangwa gufata irembo, ni byo witaga ubukwe mbere hose?"

Umukobwa ashobora guhitamo kudakora imibonano mpuzabitsina kugeza abanye n’uwo bakundanye. Yaba abikoze akiri isugi, cyangwa yarigeze no kubikora nyuma agafata umwanzuro w’uko atazongera.
Ariko se kuki umusore akurusha amayeri akagukura ku mwanzuro wawe ngo ni uko wamwerekanye mu muryango? Aha hanze hari abantu badatinya umugayo. Uretse no kuba wamwerekanye mu muryango ushobora no kumwerekana mu gihugu ariko ntibimubuze guhemuka!

Hari abakobwa benshi bafashwe irembo n’abasore batandukanye nyamara n’ubu bakiri abakobwa. Hari n’abasore bafashe irembo rirenze rimwe kandi na bo bakiri abasore. Nyamara ugasanga abo bose nyuma yo gufatwa irembo barahitaga bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina bakaza gutandukana ariko barageze ku ntego, kuko bene aba basore baba bagenzwa no kugera ku ntego y’uko yifuje gusambana n’uyu mukobwa akamubera ibamba, nyuma yo kugera ku ntego ye kandi akagenda yigamba ati se kanaka kera kose yigiraga ibiki ko ubu twaryamanye !

Numva icyaba cyiza niba koko wowe mukobwa warafashe umwanzuro w’uko ugomba kuzakora imibonano mpuzabitsina ari uko mumaze gukora ubukwe. Wikangwa no kuba umusore waramwerekanye iwanyu cyangwa yarafashe irembo. Iyo ni imihango itangirira ubukwe ariko si bwo bukwe. Wumva utazakomera ku mwanzuro wawe kugeza ku iherezo, byarutwa ko wakwiyemerera umunsi agusabye ko mubikora, aho kugira ngo nyuma uzabikore umusore agende yigamba ko yakoresheje ubwenge bwinshi burusha ubwawe agatuma uva ku izima.

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