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Kuki igitsure twakuranye tutakigirira abana bacu? - Ingabire Marie Immaculee
Guca inda zitateguwe n’indi myitwarire mibi igaragara mu rubyiruko ngo bizagorana mu gihe ababyeyi b’iki gihe badatanga uburere nk’ubwo na bo bahawe n’ababyeyi ba bo bakiri bato.
Ibi byavuzwe na Ingabire Marie Immaculee, umuyobozi w’umuryango Transparency International Rwanda, usanzwe ari n’umukada mu muryango FPR Inkotanyi, asaba abagize urugaga rw’abagore rushamikiye kuri FPR Inkotanyi mu murenge wa Kinyinya kuba umusemburo w’impinduka aho batuye.
Ati “Kuki igitsure twakuranye tutakigirira abana bacu? Kuki inama twagiriwe tutazigira abana bacu, kuki ubushuti twari dufitanye n’ababyeyi bacu tutabufitanye n’abana bacu? Harabura iki?”
Ingabire atanga urugero rw’inama yagirwaga n’umubyeyi we akiri umwangavu, yavuze ko bigaragara ko ikibazo cy’inda zitateguwe n’indi myitwarire mibi igaragara mu rubyiruko bikwiye kubazwa ababyeyi.
Ati “Ntangira amashuri yisumbuye mama yaratwicazaga akatubwira ko umukobwa ari nk’amata adasogongerwa. Ati mwari mwabona umuntu usogongera amata? Tugasanga ntawe koko. Ugakura uzi ko umukobwa ari nk’amata adasogongerwa wenda utanazi no gusogongera icyo ari cyo.”
Ingabire avuga ko ibintu nk’ibi ababyeyi badatinyuka kubibwira abana, uretse ko nta n’umwanya babagenera ngo babe babona uburyo bwo kubiganira kuko “n’iyo bageze mu rugo umwana ajya kuri telefoni ye n’umubyeyi akajya ku ye.”
Abagore b’urwo rugaga mu murenge wa Kinyinya bavuga ko bakozwe ku mutima n’inyigisho za Ingabire, bakemeza ko bagiye gukosora aho bitagendaga.
Nadia Uwamariaya agira ati “Ababyeyi benshi ntabwo bagiye bahanura abana ba bo, twakuyemo inyigisho zizatuma twegera abana bacu tukabigisha cyane ko amafaranga twirirwa dushaka ataruta abana bacu twibyariye.”
Umuyobozi w’urugaga rw’abagore rushamikiye kuri FPR Inkotanyi mu murenge wa Kinyinya, Mukandengo Claudine uyobora, avuga ko bagiye kongera imbaraga mu bukangurambaga bukorerwa mu mugoroba w’ababyeyi kugira ngo ababyeyi basubire mu nshingano za bo z’uburezi aho guheranwa no gushaka imibereho.
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Nawe uravuga ababyeyi badahanura abana?? Baretse kubahanura ariko bakabaha urugero rwiza?
None se ko badashaka ko abana babo bafora, ngo hari ababoyi!! Nyabuna iyo bagiye kubasura ku ishuri mu nterina bagasanga bakora uturimo tumwe na twe nko gukubura aho barara cyangwa bigira, koza ibyo bariraho,... Ababyeyi ba bågöre, bavuza induru ngo barakoresha abana babo imprimo idashobotse!!
Iyo bageze mu biruhuko, babaha ibyo basabye byose, cyane amafaranga, bagasohoka bagakurayo ishyano!!
Oya nimureke kubaho nk’abagashize, mwigishe abana banyu ubuzima kuko hari benshi basigaye basenya kubera ko batazi guteka, gusukura icyumba, bikabaviramo gusenya rwose!!